28.11.10

Conventional Relationships...

Sticky floor.Velvet seats, arm rest on side, to- eyes yield across, side. One side of the stage drapes tension, the other hung swooningly is terror.

And thus the night began:
The playbill is your only key to a hint for the show that will bestow upon you. When I open it for a peek before the show begins there are a series of stats, percentages, and character mock-ups. The key players are put into light, so that we may understand the show a little better...

This playbill, my playbill reads of many clinical situations and statistics. These two stand out the most.
  • 51% of marriages end in divorce.
  • 100% of marriages require sacrifice and compromise to be successful. 
The curtains are drawn and the plot proceeds.

I'm from the south. The southern ideal is to get married, settle down and have a family. I, am no southern bell- much to my mothers dismay, I might add. I can't tell you how many times my mom has hinted, or straight up asked me when I was going to get married already.

There is so much pressure to accomplish these goals in my family, and I- Kindra Starr McHenry do not see myself ever living any aspect of my life in a conventional manner. I've been there, done that- got the tee-shirt. (No really I have a tee-shirt...) and I have no interest in ever going back to that place, because it JUST WASN'T ME.

 I was having a long discussion about all this with my best friend earlier tonight and I came to an epic realization: I have no desire to ever get married, or even be in a conventional relationship.

on that note, I will write more tomorrow. :)

2.11.10

Who Inspires you?

My mom inspires me, I know, I know cliche... but really. She has accomplished a great feat that I set out to do myself. She has overcome massive challenging obstacles that have tried to hinder her walk with God, and she has found an amazing balance to life where she has outlets to exercise all of her talents and gifts. There is nothing that I wish and strive for more in life than to accomplish both of these things. My mom is an amazing woman, and if I am a fraction of what she is I will be satisfied. :)

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